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Meet the Founder

Hello, I am Cara Bowler, the founder of Zen Counselling. Your mental health is my priority. I am dedicated to supporting others on their mental health journey by offering a range of services including counselling, workshops, supervision and professional development. At Zen Counselling, we are here to help you achieve mental well-being and personal growth. You can get in touch with us to start your journey towards a healthier mind today.

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Common Conditions

Depression

What is Depression?

Depression is a common mental health condition characterised by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in daily activities. It affects how you feel, think, and handle daily activities, such as sleeping, eating, or working.

Causes of Depression

Depression can result from a complex interaction of social, psychological, and biological factors. Common causes include:

  • Genetics: A family history of depression can increase the risk.
  • Brain Chemistry: Imbalances in neurotransmitters and hormones may contribute.
  • Life Events: Stressful life events such as loss, trauma, or major changes.
  • Medical Conditions: Chronic illnesses and certain medications can trigger depression.
  • Substance Abuse: Alcohol and drug abuse can lead to or worsen depression.

Symptoms of Depression

The symptoms of depression can vary from mild to severe and include:

  • Persistent sadness or low mood
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in most activities
  • Changes in appetite or weight
  • Sleep disturbances (insomnia or sleeping too much)
  • Fatigue or loss of energy
  • Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • Thoughts of death or suicide

Positive Actions to Overcome Depression

While overcoming depression can be challenging, several positive actions can help manage and alleviate symptoms:

  1. Seek Professional Help: Consult a GP or a mental health professional.
  2. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and other forms of counselling can be very effective.
  3. Medication: Antidepressants may be prescribed for severe cases.
  4. Exercise: Regular physical activity can boost mood and energy levels.
  5. Healthy Diet: Eating a balanced diet can improve overall wellbeing.
  6. Social Support: Connecting with friends, family, or support groups can provide emotional support.
  7. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Practices such as meditation and yoga can reduce stress and improve mental health.

How Zen Counselling Can Help

At Zen Counselling, we understand that each individual's experience with depression is unique. Our compassionate and experienced counsellors offer personalised support to help you navigate through this challenging time. Through a combination of evidence-based therapies and a holistic approach, we aim to empower you to regain control of your life and achieve mental wellbeing.

Our services include one-on-one counselling sessions and mindfulness techniques designed to address the root causes of depression and promote lasting recovery. Let us support you on your journey to mental wellness.

Anxiety

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a natural response to stress and can be beneficial in some situations. However, when anxiety becomes excessive, uncontrollable, and interferes with daily activities, it is considered a disorder. Anxiety disorders are among the most common mental health conditions.

Causes of Anxiety

Anxiety can result from a variety of factors, including:

  • Genetics: A family history of anxiety can increase the likelihood of developing an anxiety disorder.
  • Brain Chemistry: Imbalances in neurotransmitters can contribute to anxiety.
  • Environmental Factors: Stressful or traumatic events, such as abuse, loss, or major life changes.
  • Personality: Certain personality types are more prone to anxiety.
  • Medical Conditions: Chronic illnesses and certain medications can trigger anxiety.
  • Substance Abuse: Alcohol, caffeine, and drug abuse can worsen anxiety.

Symptoms of Anxiety

The symptoms of anxiety can vary widely and include:

  • Excessive worrying
  • Restlessness or feeling on edge
  • Irritability
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Muscle tension
  • Sleep disturbances (difficulty falling or staying asleep)
  • Physical symptoms such as increased heart rate, sweating, trembling, and gastrointestinal issues

Positive Actions to Overcome Anxiety

Managing anxiety often involves a combination of strategies:

  1. Seek Professional Help: Consulting with a GP or a mental health professional is crucial.
  2. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for treating anxiety disorders.
  3. Medication: Antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications may be prescribed for severe cases.
  4. Exercise: Regular physical activity can reduce stress and improve mood.
  5. Healthy Diet: Eating a balanced diet can support overall health and reduce anxiety symptoms.
  6. Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as deep breathing, meditation, and yoga can help manage stress.
  7. Limit Stimulants: Reducing caffeine and alcohol intake can alleviate anxiety symptoms.
  8. Support Network: Engaging with friends, family, or support groups can provide emotional support.

How Zen Counselling Can Help

At Zen Counselling, we recognise that anxiety can be overwhelming and debilitating. Our dedicated counsellors are committed to providing personalised support tailored to your unique needs. Through a blend of evidence-based therapies and holistic approaches, we aim to help you understand and manage your anxiety effectively.

Our services include individual counselling sessions, mindfulness training, and relaxation techniques. At Zen Counselling, we believe in empowering you with the tools and strategies needed to overcome anxiety and lead a fulfilling life.

Bipolar Disorder

What is Bipolar Disorder?

Bipolar disorder, formerly known as manic-depressive illness, is a mental health condition characterised by extreme mood swings. These mood swings include emotional highs (mania or hypomania) and lows (depression) that can affect a person’s energy, activity levels, and ability to carry out daily tasks.

Causes of Bipolar Disorder

The exact cause of bipolar disorder is unknown, but several factors may contribute:

  • Genetics: A family history of bipolar disorder increases the risk.
  • Brain Structure and Functioning: Abnormalities in brain structure or function may play a role.
  • Environmental Factors: Stress, trauma, or significant life changes can trigger bipolar episodes.
  • Neurochemical Imbalances: Disruptions in neurotransmitter systems can affect mood regulation.

Symptoms of Bipolar Disorder

Bipolar disorder is marked by episodes of mania/hypomania and depression. Symptoms can include:

  • Mania/Hypomania:
    • Increased energy, activity, or restlessness
    • Euphoric mood or extreme irritability
    • Rapid speech and racing thoughts
    • Decreased need for sleep
    • Grandiose beliefs or inflated self-esteem
    • Impulsivity and poor judgment, such as spending sprees or risky behaviour
  • Depression:
    • Persistent sadness or low mood
    • Loss of interest or pleasure in most activities
    • Changes in appetite or weight
    • Sleep disturbances (insomnia or sleeping too much)
    • Fatigue or loss of energy
    • Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
    • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
    • Thoughts of death or suicide

Positive Actions to Manage Bipolar Disorder

Effective management of bipolar disorder often involves a combination of strategies:

  1. Seek Professional Help: Consult a GP or a mental health professional for a proper diagnosis and treatment plan.
  2. Medication: Mood stabilisers, antipsychotics, and antidepressants can help manage symptoms.
  3. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and psychoeducation are beneficial.
  4. Regular Routine: Maintaining a consistent daily routine, including sleep patterns, can stabilise mood swings.
  5. Healthy Lifestyle: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and avoiding alcohol and drugs can improve overall wellbeing.
  6. Stress Management: Techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, and relaxation exercises can help manage stress.
  7. Support Network: Engaging with friends, family, or support groups can provide emotional and practical support.

How Zen Counselling Can Help

At Zen Counselling, we understand that living with bipolar disorder can be challenging. Our experienced counsellors offer compassionate, personalised support to help you navigate the complexities of this condition. We use a combination of evidence-based therapies and holistic approaches to empower you with the tools and strategies needed to manage your mood swings effectively.

Our services include individual counselling sessions and mindfulness techniques. At Zen Counselling, we are committed to supporting you on your journey to mental stability and a better quality of life.

Eating Disorder

What are Eating Disorders?

Eating disorders are serious mental health conditions characterised by unhealthy eating habits that can have severe consequences for physical and emotional health. Common types of eating disorders include anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, and binge-eating disorder.

Causes of Eating Disorders

The development of eating disorders can be influenced by a combination of genetic, psychological, and environmental factors:

  • Genetics: A family history of eating disorders can increase the risk.
  • Psychological Factors: Low self-esteem, perfectionism, impulsive behaviour, and troubled relationships.
  • Sociocultural Influences: Societal pressure to achieve an unrealistic body image, exposure to media promoting thinness or muscularity.
  • Biological Factors: Imbalances in brain chemicals that control hunger, appetite, and digestion.
  • Trauma: Experiences of trauma or abuse can contribute to the development of eating disorders.

Symptoms of Eating Disorders

Symptoms can vary depending on the type of eating disorder but generally include:

  • Anorexia Nervosa:
    • Extreme weight loss or not making expected developmental weight gains.
    • Preoccupation with weight, food, and dieting.
    • Distorted body image.
    • Denial of hunger or making excuses to avoid eating.
    • Excessive exercise.
    • Severe restriction of food intake.
  • Bulimia Nervosa:
    • Episodes of binge eating followed by compensatory behaviours such as vomiting, fasting, or excessive exercise.
    • Feeling out of control during binge episodes.
    • Preoccupation with body shape and weight.
    • Frequent use of the bathroom after meals.
    • Signs of damaged teeth and gums from vomiting.
  • Binge-Eating Disorder:
    • Eating large amounts of food in a short period, even when not hungry.
    • Feeling unable to stop eating during binge episodes.
    • Experiencing guilt, shame, or distress after eating.
    • Eating in secret to avoid embarrassment.
    • Frequent dieting without weight loss.

Positive Actions to Overcome Eating Disorders

Recovery from an eating disorder is possible with the right support and treatment. Effective strategies include:

  1. Seek Professional Help: A GP or mental health professional can provide a proper diagnosis and develop a treatment plan.
  2. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), family-based therapy, and nutritional counselling are effective treatments.
  3. Medication: Antidepressants or other medications may be prescribed to help manage symptoms.
  4. Nutritional Guidance: Working with a dietitian to develop healthy eating habits and restore a balanced diet.
  5. Support Groups: Engaging with support groups can provide a sense of community and shared experiences.
  6. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Practices such as meditation and yoga can reduce stress and improve mental wellbeing.
  7. Healthy Lifestyle: Regular physical activity, adequate sleep, and self-care practices are important for overall health.

How Zen Counselling Can Help

At Zen Counselling, we understand the complexities of eating disorders and offer compassionate, personalised support to help you on your path to recovery. Our experienced counsellors use evidence-based therapies and holistic approaches to address the underlying causes and promote long-term health.

Our services include individual counselling sessions and mindfulness techniques. At Zen Counselling, we are committed to supporting you in achieving a healthy relationship with food and your body, and in fostering overall mental wellbeing.

Social Anxiety

What is Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD)?

Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD), also known as social phobia, is a common mental health condition characterised by an intense, persistent fear of being judged or negatively evaluated in social or performance situations. This fear can interfere with daily activities and significantly impact a person's quality of life.

Causes of SAD

The development of SAD can be influenced by a combination of genetic, environmental, and psychological factors:

  • Genetics: A family history of social anxiety or other anxiety disorders can increase the risk.
  • Brain Structure: An overactive amygdala, the part of the brain that controls the fear response, may play a role.
  • Environmental Factors: Negative experiences, such as bullying, humiliation, or rejection, can contribute to the development of SAD.
  • Personality: Individuals with certain personality traits, such as shyness or sensitivity to criticism, may be more prone to SAD.
  • Social and Cultural Factors: Societal expectations and cultural norms can influence the onset of social anxiety.

Symptoms of SAD

Symptoms of SAD can vary but generally include:

  • Intense fear of interacting with strangers.
  • Fear of situations where you may be judged.
  • Worrying about embarrassing or humiliating yourself.
  • Avoidance of social or performance situations.
  • Intense anxiety in anticipation of a feared event.
  • Physical symptoms such as blushing, sweating, trembling, nausea, rapid heartbeat, and difficulty speaking.
  • Avoiding eye contact or speaking softly.
  • Difficulty making and keeping friends.

Positive Actions to Manage SAD

Managing SAD often involves a combination of strategies:

  1. Seek Professional Help: A GP or mental health professional can provide a proper diagnosis and treatment plan.
  2. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) is highly effective for treating SAD.
  3. Medication: Antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications can help manage symptoms.
  4. Exposure Therapy: Gradually facing feared social situations in a controlled manner to reduce avoidance behaviour.
  5. Social Skills Training: Learning and practising social skills can improve confidence and reduce anxiety.
  6. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Practices such as meditation and deep breathing exercises can help manage stress and anxiety.
  7. Healthy Lifestyle: Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are crucial for overall wellbeing.

How Zen Counselling Can Help

At Zen Counselling, we understand the challenges that come with social anxiety disorder and are here to provide comprehensive support. Our experienced counsellors offer personalised, evidence-based therapies designed to help you manage and overcome your social anxiety.

Our services include counselling sessions. We also incorporate mindfulness techniques and relaxation strategies to empower you with the tools needed to regain confidence and improve your social interactions. At Zen Counselling, we are dedicated to helping you achieve mental wellness and a better quality of life.

OCD

What is Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)?

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterised by unwanted, intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviours or mental acts (compulsions) that individuals feel driven to perform. These behaviours are often aimed at reducing anxiety or preventing a feared event, although they are not realistically connected to the feared event.

Causes of OCD

The exact cause of OCD is not fully understood, but several factors may contribute:

  • Genetics: A family history of OCD can increase the risk.
  • Brain Structure and Function: Abnormalities in certain areas of the brain, particularly those involved in decision-making and behaviour regulation.
  • Environmental Factors: Stressful life events, trauma, and certain infections may trigger or exacerbate OCD symptoms.
  • Neurochemical Imbalances: Disruptions in serotonin levels, a neurotransmitter involved in mood regulation, are believed to play a role.

Symptoms of OCD

OCD symptoms can vary but generally include:

  • Obsessions:
    • Persistent, unwanted thoughts, images, or urges that cause distress or anxiety.
    • Common obsessions include fears of contamination, harming others, or needing things to be symmetrical or in perfect order.
  • Compulsions:
    • Repetitive behaviours or mental acts performed to reduce anxiety or prevent a feared event.
    • Common compulsions include excessive hand-washing, checking, counting, or arranging items in a specific way.

Positive Actions to Manage OCD

Managing OCD often requires a combination of strategies:

  1. Seek Professional Help: Consult a GP or mental health professional for a proper diagnosis and treatment plan.
  2. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), particularly Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), is highly effective for treating OCD.
  3. Medication: Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and other medications may be prescribed to help manage symptoms.
  4. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Practices such as meditation and yoga can help reduce stress and anxiety.
  5. Healthy Lifestyle: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep can improve overall wellbeing.
  6. Support Network: Engaging with friends, family, or support groups can provide emotional support and practical advice.

How Zen Counselling Can Help

At Zen Counselling, we understand the profound impact that OCD can have on your life. Our compassionate and experienced counsellors offer personalised support to help you manage and overcome your OCD symptoms. We utilise evidence-based therapies, including cognitive-behavioural therapy and mindfulness techniques, to empower you with the tools and strategies needed to regain control.

Our services include one-on-one counselling sessions and holistic approaches tailored to your unique needs. At Zen Counselling, we are dedicated to helping you achieve mental wellbeing and a better quality of life.

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